I am a self-confess disorganized woman. I don't know but since I was a kid, I remember strongly how I survive even the most difficult situation brought about by a disorganized environment. In fact, I do best when I am in a chaotic situation. But of course, I do not neglect the truth that I did have several losses, mishief, unfortunate events, and other bad lucks when I choose to put my feet in these nasty situations. I chose the word "choose" because the pages of my memory tells me that most, if not all, of these experiences were under my control.
Just last Friday, I watered my list (again) when I lost my entire bag after a night out. Gah, you read it right, I lost not just my wallet, nor my vanity kit, nor my keys - I lost all of them and other items in my bag. You see? If I itemize everything, it does not cost me that much (except for this one precious thing that was given to me as a gift) but the hassle of mustering them again because they are mostly my neccesities is such a big pain in the ass.
I lost my wallet, which is my second for the year, but fortunately I do not have much cash on it just a little over 200 bucks and some callin cards that I have collected during my job interviews. The wallet was an aged one that I recycled when I lost my previous money keeper.
I lost two of my keys which means that I need to pay a visit to Mr. Quickie, else I will be under a daily mercy of my colleague to hand me our reserved key and would be a frequent visitor on my dorm's lobby while everyone else comes home and open our door. And yes, I lost my dear eiffel tower keychain. :(
My sun broadband bid goodbye to me and that equalled to one thing - stripping off more than a thousand bucks for its replacement. Unneccesary cost. Unwise spending.
Some of my favorite make ups and brushes were there as well in my dearly departed bag. I need to replace them via online purchase which is very time-consuming for me.
The bag which is not even a day old with me got lost. It was a cute bag but the I have not enjoyed fully wearing it along with my other outfits. I just hate losing things.
Most of all, the precious and invaluable thing that was given to me by an important person got lost. Ah, I feel so guilty. :(
Can someone pich me to death so that I'll wake up and get rid of this nasty habit? I seriously hate myself for being such a mess. There are so many lessons learned from last Friday's experience.
... unload your bag when you are going on a gimmick. Bring only the basic.
... prepare ahead of time (just like in any other event) so that you can filter out what to bring
... know your limits. If you intend to get druck, be sure to have a strong support system that can look after your belongings
... as my dad always says, before stepping ahead, pause and think for three minutes what you might have missed.
Monday, July 26, 2010
Monday, July 19, 2010
The Aunt In Me
Undeniably, parents have the most unconditional love. They will give their last piece to their lovely daughter or to their caring son. I, too, can vouch on grandparents' astounding love to their grandchildren. I see this right into my eyes as to how my parents are taking the responsibility of my irresponsible sister. No, irresponsible is an understatement - my HEARTLESS sister. Let me save that story on my next blogs.
But there is something with aunts that makes us unique as the giver of love and affection to our nieces and nephews. It must be the motherly figure tied up with a sisterly friendship that bind us to the little ones. I grew up not so close to my aunts and uncles. But with my nieces and my newly born nephew, I am proud to boast that I am loving them at least at par of what a normal parent does to her children. It is the very reason why I choose to go home frequently so that I can at least fill up the absences of their heartless mother.
They are adorable. I can't be prouder as to how they are growing up to be smart and beautiful young girls!
But there is something with aunts that makes us unique as the giver of love and affection to our nieces and nephews. It must be the motherly figure tied up with a sisterly friendship that bind us to the little ones. I grew up not so close to my aunts and uncles. But with my nieces and my newly born nephew, I am proud to boast that I am loving them at least at par of what a normal parent does to her children. It is the very reason why I choose to go home frequently so that I can at least fill up the absences of their heartless mother.
They are adorable. I can't be prouder as to how they are growing up to be smart and beautiful young girls!
buying ate's school stuff!
I just need to slip on mommy's pumps and take a pose!
time for some horror pictorial!
The photos above are some of the normal bonding moments we have. I love how simple their happiness is - chocolates, make-ups, shoes, cuddles and hugs, etc. These are the moments which makes me think that airfare expenses are just worth it! And what could be a sweeter news? An addition to my growing stable of nieces and nephews - yes, a nephew!
Please welcome the newest addition to our family!
Jose Ma. Alonso III
Thirdy's tag!
My first nephew's so tiny! He is only 4 pounds but soooo adorable! I can't wait to buy boys' stuff for him! Blues, batman, superman - here I come!!!
Thursday, July 15, 2010
2010
It is already half way when we need to wrap up the seventh month of year 2010. It made me realize, what were the major accomplishments have I done for the last semester? Gah, career-wise. it has been a useless moment for me. But what I am thankful of is that in my family relationships, I got to spend more time with them than in the last few years. I get to prank my nieces more often, attend to our family business occasionally, and share life's stories with my dad and mom.
Going back to my career, I want to achieve two certifications within the year: CIA and CFE. I want to be a full-fledged Internal Auditor and a rigo Fraud Examiner. I guess this is the best way to compensate my weak experience in Ramcar.
Before the year ends, I also want to establish a business. A business which would not require magnanimous capital nor demand with my busy time and schedule. I am longing actually for a business partner slash friend. I guess that would be easier to establish the business. Don't ask me what business do I have in mind now as I do not have concrete plans yet. Ah, I need a business partner.
How about you? What are your plans for the remaining months of 2010? :)
Going back to my career, I want to achieve two certifications within the year: CIA and CFE. I want to be a full-fledged Internal Auditor and a rigo Fraud Examiner. I guess this is the best way to compensate my weak experience in Ramcar.
Before the year ends, I also want to establish a business. A business which would not require magnanimous capital nor demand with my busy time and schedule. I am longing actually for a business partner slash friend. I guess that would be easier to establish the business. Don't ask me what business do I have in mind now as I do not have concrete plans yet. Ah, I need a business partner.
How about you? What are your plans for the remaining months of 2010? :)
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
Roller Coaster Ride
It seems like roller coaster type of career life is meant for me, or rather, I was born to ride with it.
This morning, I was determined to get my signed resignation letter to my boss as I need to finalize my plans. This afternoon, I am scheduled to meet with Job Offer #1 to personally negotiate. This in mind, I wanted to close the chapter of my Ramcar life and proceed to somewhere where I can find my home. The offer has been long outstanding because I tried to wait for another one with DM. It turned out that DM which is supposed to be a Job Offer #2 was not final at all. It has internal problems which made it less viable. I got frustrated with it, as I really want to see what they can give me. This prompted me to meet up with Job Offer #1. Yes, I don't want to be left empty-handed.
A not-so-interesting job offer #1, curtailed job offer#2, no news from job offer #3. All these things led me to one thing - meet up and see what job offer #1 can finally offer. And most likely, to sign up with them.
Come this morning, I went to my boss to seek his signature on my resignation letter. Here comes another major development. He asked me to give them a chance. He wants to put me into the Internal Audit Department. He targets to groom me into someone who would replace the VP for IA in the near future. He sees my strong background in auditing as a major factor in bringing the competency of the department at a higher level. He is confident with me.
Roller coaster ride. I must admit, the conversation I had with my boss sparked my interest with Ramcar. I don't know what is the best thing to do now. I am in the state of lost. Ah, career life!
This morning, I was determined to get my signed resignation letter to my boss as I need to finalize my plans. This afternoon, I am scheduled to meet with Job Offer #1 to personally negotiate. This in mind, I wanted to close the chapter of my Ramcar life and proceed to somewhere where I can find my home. The offer has been long outstanding because I tried to wait for another one with DM. It turned out that DM which is supposed to be a Job Offer #2 was not final at all. It has internal problems which made it less viable. I got frustrated with it, as I really want to see what they can give me. This prompted me to meet up with Job Offer #1. Yes, I don't want to be left empty-handed.
A not-so-interesting job offer #1, curtailed job offer#2, no news from job offer #3. All these things led me to one thing - meet up and see what job offer #1 can finally offer. And most likely, to sign up with them.
Come this morning, I went to my boss to seek his signature on my resignation letter. Here comes another major development. He asked me to give them a chance. He wants to put me into the Internal Audit Department. He targets to groom me into someone who would replace the VP for IA in the near future. He sees my strong background in auditing as a major factor in bringing the competency of the department at a higher level. He is confident with me.
Roller coaster ride. I must admit, the conversation I had with my boss sparked my interest with Ramcar. I don't know what is the best thing to do now. I am in the state of lost. Ah, career life!
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Update on Job Offer #1
I shared my quest for a new job with you and I also shared how my first job offer went. Today was the time to decide on whether I accept LF as my third employer or not. I talked to the HR and I relayed to them my concerns. It was a discreet email giving them a message that I want to raise the offer a little higher. You see, when I computed my annual current pay, it turned out that their offer was lower!
Okay, compensation is only one aspect of getting a new job, but it is also one of the most important, right? I do not disregard the fact that I can learn a lot from the company but I must also remember that I can equally get that experience from other organization.
I am gambling here. I am taking risk. What if my decision is wrong? Nah, I need to face the risk. On top of this all, I inject my GUT FEEL. And the capslock words are telling me to hold on and wait for other offers. So there it is. :)
Okay, compensation is only one aspect of getting a new job, but it is also one of the most important, right? I do not disregard the fact that I can learn a lot from the company but I must also remember that I can equally get that experience from other organization.
I am gambling here. I am taking risk. What if my decision is wrong? Nah, I need to face the risk. On top of this all, I inject my GUT FEEL. And the capslock words are telling me to hold on and wait for other offers. So there it is. :)
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